If you have been following me on any of my social media accounts, then you are well aware that I am a HUGE Harry Potter fan. When I combined that with the fact that one of my most popular blog posts is the one on Severus Snape it was easy to decide on a topic for my first blogging series: The Characters of Harry Potter. There are way too many characters for me to write about them all, so I have decided to limit it to four. Now on with today’s post.
I love Ron. I’m just going to state that from the get go. I entered the Potter fandom relatively late (after Order of the Phoenix the book had just come out), but for the past 8 years I have been heavily immersed in that online world. I am very frequently left speechless by the reactions I see towards Ron. There is an enormous camp of people who idolize him, but there is also a not so small group of people who genuinely – to put it mildly – don’t like him.
Why?
There are several complaints that I see pop up most frequently: One, that Ron serves no real purpose to the story other than comic relief. Two, that Ron is the most immature member of the trio and it gets annoying. Three, that Ron is frequently touted as representing loyalty among the trio, yet he is the one who abandons Harry on two separate occasions.
What’s interesting, is that reasons two and three are part of why I love Ron so much. Those same two things also speak to what I believe a large part of his purpose in the books actually is.
Ron is just an ordinary guy.
JK Rowling is better than most authors at creating multi-layered, flawed characters. I challenge anyone to find a character from Harry Potter who is a too perfect “Mary Sue” or whatever the male equivalent is. I really don’t think one exists. BUT, where the main characters are concerned, almost all of them also have a part that is better than, extraordinary. This is why Ron is such a relatable character to so many. He is just an average, ordinary guy who is trying to be the best friend he knows how to be to someone who is anything but ordinary.
I still remember the first time I read through each book. When Ron unfairly blamed Harry in Goblet of Fire I was just as upset and frustrated as Harry was. In Deathly Hallows when Ron left Harry and Hermione on the hunt for Horcruxes I felt the hurt and betrayal just as acutely as they did. Those two actions were incredibly selfish. They were also incredibly normal.
I don’t know about you, but when I was in high school friends got in fights with each other all the time. We would stop talking to each other over the most trivial of things. Jealousy born of insecurity causes people to do all kinds of crazy things they normally wouldn’t, especially during the volatile teenage years. And that’s just in our normal, ordinary world and friendships. Now imagine being best friends with someone who lives under the constant threat and attention inherent when the most evil person to live in hundreds of years is after him. I’m impressed Ron and Harry didn’t get into fights more often.
The thing that I admire so much about Ron is that, yes he makes mistakes, but he also learns from those mistakes and will admit he was wrong. He did that in both Goblet of Fire and Deathly Hallows. One of the hardest things in the world to do is let go of stubborn anger, admit you were wrong, and ask for forgiveness. The bigger the mistake, the harder this is to do. That Ron is able to do this with such big mess ups shows tremendous growth, even maturity, in his character as well as the depth of his love for his best friend. In fact, I believe that Ron’s character shows more growth over the course of the series than almost any other.
Throughout the books Ron reacts to things in ways that I could imagine any number of guys I knew in high school – or even myself – reacting. He has very little filter present between his brain and his mouth, which causes him to say things that are often rude or insensitive. I think that most of the time he is oblivious to the fact that this is how he comes across and that in his heart he truly does care about those around him.
With the exception of the two times mentioned previously, he ALWAYS stood up for Harry. In Prisoner of Azkaban he could hardly move from his broken leg, yet he still boldly declared “If you want to kill Harry, you’ll have to kill us, too” to Sirius Black (249*). In Order of the Phoenix when the whole school thought Harry was an attention seeking liar, Ron stood up for him even when it was a friend making the accusations (197-198). There are many more examples sprinkled throughout, but these are just two that have always stood out to me.
I can not imagine the Harry Potter books without Ron. He adds so much more than much needed comic relief. He adds heart and an element of relatability to a story that lives in the realm of the fantastical. He is flawed, ordinary, fallible. As my friend Maria Gonzalez said, “We can’t all be ‘the brightest witch of our age’ or ‘the boy who lived’. Ron represents the normal people.”
What do you think? Do you like Ron or think that he is an immature git (to use one of his favorite words)? What are some of your favorite Ron moments? Let me know in the comments!
Be sure to check back for the next installment in my series; I will be discussing Hermione.
*Page numbers are from the UK editions.

I love Ron, too. It is through Ron that Harry finds two things he has never had: friendship and family. While everyone else is staring and whispering about Harry Ron steps right up and introduces himself. He welcomes Harry into his family and rescues him from his terrible Dursley life on several occasions. Even though he is just a normal guy (for a wizard) he uses all his skills and courage for Harry’s benefit. This more than makes up for a few stubborn misunderstandings.
Exactly! Ron is a very integral part of the series for so many reasons. Thank you for the comment, Lissie
I was hoping you’d write about Ron, he is my favourite and also I think he’s the best actor of the three. For some reason I’ve not really liked Harry except maybe the first few after that he seems to be acting and it shows (if you understand what I mean).
And I agree with your arguments, to me he is the most natural.
My second favourite is …. shalln’t say, just hope you write about him er her next
Great post, Jessica.
Believe it or not, I think I do understand what you mean with regards to Daniel Radcliffe’s acting. There are several moments in the movies that make me cringe a little and I think you just explained why, but for the most part I think he does ok.
Glad you liked my take on Ron, especially since he’s your favorite. Of course, now I’m curious who your second favorite is
As always, thank you, Martin!
I think Ron is a great character. Sure, he acts like a child sometimes, but so does harry. Ron was a loyal friend anyone would wish to have.
Completely agree. Thanks for the comment
I’m with you about Ron (and it’s not just b/c that’s my husband’s name!). I even used him in a scene in one of my stories, a little debate over his crush worthiness!!
Oh fun! He’s totally crush worthy
As a GIGANTIC Harry Potter fan, I clicked on your tweet link faster than pouring a glass of wine at 5. *wink* Seriously, I adore them all in the series and want to be J.K. when I grow up. But looking at the 3, Harry, Ron and Hermione, they all serve a very important roll. Those books would not be the same if it were just Harry and Hermione for instance. Ron is the one person Harry can be a guy with and totally unguarded. And Ron treats him like a friend, not like ‘the boy who lived’.
Also, the fact that Ron betrayed Harry those 2 times strengthens their friendship. First, it creates a deeper character out of Ron, who has his own demons to deal with and his own character growth. Second, it shows Harry that true friends will indeed stick with you, in the end and not everyone will abandon you. And third, sometimes you have to miss something, really grieve its absence in your life to understand how vitally important it was in the first place.
Looking forward to the next HP post!
Haha! You did click on it fast, then.
Whenever anyone asks who my favorite Harry Potter character is I always want to answer “the trio”. Even though they are 3 very distinct people, they are also an unbreakable unit. Together they compliment each other and can accomplish anything. I am soooo glad that Jo went with her original plan and did not kill Ron!
Ginger nailed it. I adore Ron as well. I love the fact that he is so very real and flawed. That’s what makes him so relatable. The story needs him. Harry needs him. And I can’t imagine the books without him. Or Hermione for that matter. It is “the trio” that makes it so special. I couldn’t put those books down, I loved them so much. Thank you for defending Ron Jessica.
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